Monday, April 23, 2012

What is your real age?

Hi Lovelies

The other day I was chatting with my girlfriends and this idea of either we’re “ girl” or “woman” came up. My girlfriends and I are all about the same age, however, we feel differently as if we’re “ girl” or “woman” or in betweens.



Some of us feel that when we’re by ourselves, or at the work place, we feel like a “ woman”. However, when we’re at home, or with our BF or Hubby, we feel like a “ girl” or even like a “baby” !!!!


Others feel like a girl, or a woman, as for me, I feel like I am something in between. So why do we feel this way? I personally feel like I am no longer a girl, because the super cute clothes that I used to crave (even when I feel like physically maybe I am a little too old for them?) I no longer crave for them. I know I can probably pulled them off, since I’m still in my 20’s and with my face I can easily pull off as a girl. ( I been mistake for being 18 on multiple occasions.. lol ) But I don’t crave for them, not because they are not cute anymore, but because I have matured inside.

 
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( Although I don’t feel the pictures represent exactly what I mean, but close enough) 

So Basically, how we dress is the age we are inside. You may sometimes see older people dressing like teenagers, & that is probably because that’s their age inside. They still feel like a kid, so they dress like one. I know that sounds kind of harsh right there. ( but if you look good then you look good! ok, not judging!)  & I know many people, especially woman likes to stay as young looking as possible. But when you have honestly matured, you would not want to dress immaturely. 

I think this is also the reason why the dress code is so important at a work place. How you dress reflects who you are inside, and if you’re an employee representing a company, they do not want you to represent poorly!



So let’s go back to the whole “ age theory”. As I mention earlier, sometimes we feel different age or act different age when we’re with different people. I conclude that it is because of the different level of connection with another person. When we think of innocence, we think of young people or children. The characteristic of an innocent person is the fact that he/she can easily trust another person & we only easily trust the people who we are closely connected with. Which is why sometimes you may see a guy who is totally manly in public but acts like a baby with his girlfriend in private!


At the end, what is my real age? I don’t know, but I still think it’s somewhere in between a girl and a woman. I realize I actually don’t act very differently in private or in public. I like to dress womanly and act cute sometimes but I don’t like to act like an girl who needs to be help or rescue from a man constantly.




What do you think is your real age? 

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xoxo HitomiNeko xoxo

15 comments:

  1. Fintia4/23/2012

    Even though i'm 30. I still feel like in my 20's :) I am always been mistake like for an 18 to 20 year old

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  2. misskatv4/23/2012

    I feel like im still a teen. lol :))) i even post seventeen magazine scans on my blog. haha :))) im a total feeler ;p

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  3. cutedumpling4/23/2012

     I'm 24..hehe :)

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  4. sukipooki4/24/2012

    I think this is a great post! In fact I think my bf needs to read this hahaha because he never understands me, how I can act like a baby but be very mature almost simultaneously. He always asks me to either be one but I tell him that's impossible because that's just not me! Go figure with men! For now I feel age appropriate but I think I'm always going to feel like I'm in my twenties even when I'm in my forties with a family! That's probably why many women also tend to get botox etc. round that age, so that their outer appearance can match their inner "age" =)

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  5. Cool! I like your comment about botox! I didn’t think about that! I think it’s true! If our wardrobe cannot conceal our real age anymore, people would probably do botox!  Cuz I think since early 20’s most people’s inner self tend to not “grow up” so fast~ & we also like to keep that age of mind too. more fun ^^

    xoxo 

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  6. good one! I think I’m about the same! <3 

    xoxo 

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  7. That’s ur inner age right?! O n i guess now I think of it, inner age can be older then your actual age too ~ whichever u think it is ~ =P but i guess kind of hard to think oneself as older then he/she actually is. cuz if we never experience an age, then how can we know right? ~ 

    xoxo 

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  8. haha I feel that way too~ but I guess for the past year, I feel like I have finally grow out of it.. ( mostly) hehe <3 

    xoxo 

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  9. That’s awesome! Stay Young! & 30 is the new 20 anyway! <3 

    xoxo 

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  10. Ariana4/24/2012

    hii!! i love this post! 
    I have 21 years but....i think im baby XDDD with my boyfriend i actedd like a little girl..but with my friends and works i acteed like a girl matures...but because they want to see that! i really im a baby XDDDD

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  11. interesting post. I think you got some valid points here. And i do blv that ppl tend to dress as how they feel or how they want themselves to feel. So the whole "older ppl dress like a teenager" i think its pretty accurate. IMO, they either are still mentally immature or trying to grasp the youth that slipped away along time ago. I am more childish with my hubby and my family, but i think for the most part i'd like to be taken seriously and stop acting cute, since i feel it is no longer appropriate for me to so...but still sometimes you just wanna act like kid and feel without a single worry in the world

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  12. that’s so true~ don’t we wish we can all stay young and childish, worry free and innocent? ^^ 

    xoxo 

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  13. hahhaha ~ you made me smile when you said “ i’m a baby” ~ so funny & cute ~

    xoxo 

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  14. That's my actual age.. ^_^ But I feel younger still lol!! :D

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